Nine values of the Right man
14th of February, many among the lady-folk desire to have someone to spend the day with. Expectations are drawn by the luck upon the man to deliver surprise and romance with much splendor and valor. A rush always seems to go forth on the days that precede the latter in the search for the hard to find soul-mate, cupid looks to be at his busiest trying to get the bull’s eye for the searching singles, when a find is made, there is increase in the demand for products from cocoa beans and flowers as undying love is sworn and promises that put eternity to shame are whispered.
However not all catch is the right fish, many end up with toads and frogs and for the entirely unlucky water weed is not hard to come by. Months’ later relations that seemed to be headed for forever get broken and many hearts are left scarred, the much pain and wonder on how to tell and read the signs on a guy that cuts the mark. So how do the ladies ensure that they meet the true and desirable pair and weed out the tormentors? Here is direction from a book of great wisdom and various quotes on how to bag your flawless jewel.
1. How he treats animals: Prov. 12:10 says; the righteous care for the needs of their animals, but the kindest acts of the wicked are cruel. This kind of summarizes it all, you can tell a man’s character by the way he treats animals, hitting and kicking something that is quite harmless says a lot.
2. Does he listen to others: “Accept what life offers you and try to drink from every cup. All wines should be tasted; some should only be sipped, but with others, drink the whole bottle.” Paulo Coelho
3. What is the nature of his temper: Is he cool as can be or does he burn with the thrill of pepper at the slightest provocation; “Anybody can become angry — that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.” Aristotle
4. How does he make his money: this is quite the sensitive one, as every lady needs a man that can take good care of her, word of caution though; Prov. 15:27, Those who are greedy for unjust gain bring trouble into their homes, but the person who hates bribes will live.
5. Does he have a calm spirit: A man who doesn’t rouse at every petty bicker is a sound choice. Prov. 17:28, Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.
6. Look at his friends: The Japanese proverb; when the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends, may sound cliché but it is utterly true. Find a man’s friends and you find the man, this doesn’t mean just because you do not like some of his friends, he isn’t right for you, but instead observe their character.
7. Does he defend himself: A real good guy should be able to defend and support every decision that he makes, he should be a stand-up guy. A man who can stand up for himself can stand up for you, bravery isn’t about not being afraid but triumph over fear.
8. He should be organized: If he is all about clutter around his life, he is always in a mess, one word – leave. He cannot make plans for you and with you if he can’t make himself a plan and put his house in order. Being organized is not easy, it takes effort to be and remain that way. “To be in hell is to drift; to be in heaven is to steer.”― George Bernard Shaw
9. Are you the apple of his eye? A guy who loves picking from the whole orchard is no good for you. Your ideal guy should revere you as the finest pick and stick with you, If he flaunts God’s will before he is married, what assurance is there he will not flaunt God’s will after he is married?
There you have it. This list may not outline everything but it sure points you in the right direction after that wine and chocolate filled valentine.
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